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Go Get Stronger.

8/20/2016

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On the counter, there’s a plastic model of a brain, made up of 8 pieces. If he’s running behind schedule, I take it apart while I wait, and put it back together. I reflect on the simplicity and complexity of this incredible organ, and the power it has to change the world. I carefully put the model back together, and my heart aches that my own brain is so broken. Reassembling the parts brings me a certain peace, as if it symbolizes the journey we take, time and time again. If only it was that easy. I sit in the chair next to the exam table, and wait for closure, approval, and comfort. 


Then he’s there, and I get the word. I hear the phrase, and I absorb the challenge. Go get stronger. I feel the concern he tries to hide, and I see the urgency that we experience every day. Over the past few years, I’ve learned to read that resolve in his expression. He’s proud of me, and so happy I’m ok— but we need to be relentless in the pursuit of recovery. Stronger. Go as far forward as possible, before we get pulled backwards again. Stronger, so we can face the unknown. Stronger, so I can walk through the valley of the shadow of death, and fear no evil. Stronger, so I can still be Amy when they wake me up. Stronger.


Right now, I am obsessed with gaining strength, because I can feel that there are tough days coming. It’s a sensation I can’t explain, and there are no words to describe the fear I’m suppressing. On the outside, my walls are up, hiding the fact that behind the brick and mortar, the foundations are cracked already, and I am bracing myself for the fall. I lift even when I hurt, and leave the pain on the gym floor. Every day I keep moving, and I keep pushing. I will be stronger - a little bit, every single day. 


If nothing else, I will be strong enough to start over, if I have to. 
I’ve always been strong enough, in ways the world will not see. 


There’s a hole in the middle of my heart again
But I’m not afraid to start again
Start again, I’m gonna start again 
There’s a hole in the middle and it never mends
It never mends
But I’ve got to start again


(Conrad Sewell - Start Again)



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2 Comments
Naoma McCosley
3/22/2018 07:35:19 am

I understand, but not in the exact same way. I feel the same heartache when I hear the words spoken by the neurosurgeons who care for our two children that have hydrocephalus with shunts and surgery is necessary. It never gets easier. It never will. I have to get stronger for them and for myself.

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amy
3/22/2018 08:06:26 pm

Naoma,
Thank you for sharing this with me. You are so strong.

Best,
Amy

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    My name is Amy but friends and family call me Am. I am a lover of dogs, good whiskey, and strength training. I'm a brain surgery survivor (x31), a fiddle player, a construction designer, and a boxing enthusiast. I have six real siblings, and five fake brothers. I love deeply, and consider my close friends to be family. 

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